2007/11/28

Removing the panties

Believe it or not, this is the easiest part. Now you’ve gotten her down to her panties and it’s almost time for sex. By the way, if you don’t have your shirt off at this point, you should take it off while removing the pants. If you’re completely clothed, and she’s naked, that is NOT good.
She’ll feel awkward, because you’re not undressing along with her. If you want, while you’re kissing her neck, whisper in her ear to help you out of your shirt. She’ll be glad to.
Anyway, back to the panties. So you’re between her legs and you just took off her pants and socks. Now, go back up to her and start kissing her really slowly deliberately. Next, start working your way down her body with your mouth.
First her mouth, then neck, then breasts, then stomach… and then……
Then you start kissing her right over her panties onto her vagina… almost as if you were going down on here right there. Then slide your fingers in from the sides of the panties, and move them to one side and actually start going down on her bare vagina.
But again, remember not to give her 100% of the pleasure until the panties come off completely. The idea here is to lick everywhere on her vagina EXCEPT her clitoris… which is where she really WANTS your tongue to be.
What you can do is… threaten her with clitoral pleasure by coming VERY VERY close to the clitoris, but not actually on it. At this point, those panties are coming off. I’ve never had resistance at this point… not once ever.
Why? Because she KNOWS she’s about to receive massive pleasure, and those darn panties are getting in the way of her getting what she craves.

Removing the pants.

The same general strategy applies for removing the pants as well. Start by stroking her outer thighs, and then move inward into the inner thighs, and then lightly stroke over her vagina.
The pants have to come off slowly as well. First, undo her button, and unzip… but leave it there. Then gently rub your hands in and out of wherever you can reach into her unzipped pants, but don’t go too far down. Remember, you want to give her the promise of immediate pleasure after those pants come off, but not a moment sooner.
Next, get in between her legs and start kissing her all the way down to her stomach. Then, start kissing lower and lower down onto her panties.
Then, at the same time you’re kissing her panties, grab her pants in both hands and slowly start pulling them down while continuing to kiss lower and lower.
At this point, you’ll be able to tell if she wants them off or not, because if she does, she’ll almost always lift up her ass so you can slide them off easily. If she doesn’t do that, don’t worry… just keep kissing around that area, and move onto plan B.
Plan B
If she doesn’t lift her ass up to let you get her pants off, start kissing around her lower thighs and directly onto her vagina area through her pants. Usually pants are pretty thick, so you can even give a little bit. The idea is that you want to imply the promise of immediate oral sex.
This is almost always enough to make those pants FLY off. Just be persistent and realize that sometimes the girl just isn’t ready. Usually, if you’re this far into things, you can take it all the way… it just takes patience and persistence.
And by the way, when those pants DO come off, remove the socks too while you’re pulling the pants off. You don’t want her to be completely naked and still have her damn socks on.

Removing the shirt and bra

Okay, for the most part, you can’t just go right to removing a woman’s clothing right away. You have to make her WANT to take those clothes off. But let’s look at the psychology of it.
Why would a woman WANT to take her clothes off? What is the reward for doing that? The answer… MORE PLEAUSRE IMMEDIATELY.
In the main book, I talked about how when a woman is on top of you, and you two are kissing… how you should reach up the back of her shirt and begin to stroke her lower back lightly.
Now, remember I said NOT to go all the way up her back? Why is that? I mean, you CAN easily reach up there if you wanted to. Well, the reason is that you don’t want to give her all the pleasure from those light strokes while she still has her shirt on.
She has to have some motivation for an immediate reward, otherwise she’ll just lay on top of you and let you rub her back. In order to make her want more, you can’t give her all the pleasure until she removes the item of clothing that you’re working on getting her to take off.
The same thing goes for the front. Let’s say you’re kissing her neck, and you slowly start to kiss down by her breasts. In fact, I usually kiss right on her nipple, but OVER her shirt and bra. Why?
Because she knows how good this would feel if you were doing this to her bare breasts, instead of her stupid shirt. She’ll feel a little pleasure from kissing her breasts over the shirt, but she’ll be annoyed that she can’t get to enjoy all of it.
Also, another method for making her want to take her top off is to kiss down her neck, and if she has an open cleavage shirt, start pulling it down a little, so you can kiss lower onto her breasts. But DON’T kiss the sensitive nipple area while she still has her shirt on…. EVER.
If she wants to enjoy THAT, she will take her top off. Now realize, a lot of the time she won’t just take her top off. She’ll wait for you to do it for her. This is extremely easy when she’s on top of you, because usually she has her hands on the bed on either side of you to support herself up while she kisses you.
Now is the perfect position to reach up, and undo her bra. And now you can stroke a LITTLE bit higher on the back, but still not all the way. Why are you doing this? Simple, now… she not only still wants to experience pleasure, but now she’s got this annoying feeling of an undone bra on her body.
So she’ll either want to redo the bra strap, or just take it off. And you know what, I’ve never had a woman redo her bra strap ☺
So remember, now that you’ve got her turned on, and you’ve got the bra undone, you’re 80% there. Now, it’s just a matter of time. Keep turning her on, and lifting her shirt a little bit at a time.
Usually what will happen is that you’ll rub her back, and as you’re lifting her shirt up, you’ll notice her arch her back forward a little. She’s doing this to make it extremely easy for you to remove her shirt, so take the cue and DO IT.
Oh yeah, and one more thing… there’s an important reason why you ALWAYS undo the bra before you remove the shirt.
That reason is, when you take off the shirt, you can just scoop up the bra and remove it WITH the shirt… all at once. Think about it… WHAT girl is going to want to sit there with an undone bra and no shirt? At this point, it’s either all or nothing, and they almost always go for taking them both off.
Piece of cake right? With some practice, you’ll be able to pull this off so smoothly that it will feel completely natural to the girl, because she’s so preoccupied with receiving more pleasure from you. Oh man, I love women!

Secrets Of Undressing A Woman

In this special bonus, you will learn something that most men will never ever figure out on their own, and that is… how to strategically undress a woman to minimize the chances last minute resistance to having sex, and also turn her on to the point of having her want to have sex with you VERY badly.
Sound good? Okay, let’s get started.
I assume you’ve already read Secrets Of A Sex Magnet, and so you’re familiar with the basics of getting a woman back to your place, and preferably your bedroom.
So what do you do when it’s obviously time to start getting physical? Well, you certainly can’t have sex with your clothes on, so let’s talk about how to get those annoying clothes off