Removing the shirt and bra

Okay, for the most part, you can’t just go right to removing a woman’s clothing right away. You have to make her WANT to take those clothes off. But let’s look at the psychology of it.
Why would a woman WANT to take her clothes off? What is the reward for doing that? The answer… MORE PLEAUSRE IMMEDIATELY.
In the main book, I talked about how when a woman is on top of you, and you two are kissing… how you should reach up the back of her shirt and begin to stroke her lower back lightly.
Now, remember I said NOT to go all the way up her back? Why is that? I mean, you CAN easily reach up there if you wanted to. Well, the reason is that you don’t want to give her all the pleasure from those light strokes while she still has her shirt on.
She has to have some motivation for an immediate reward, otherwise she’ll just lay on top of you and let you rub her back. In order to make her want more, you can’t give her all the pleasure until she removes the item of clothing that you’re working on getting her to take off.
The same thing goes for the front. Let’s say you’re kissing her neck, and you slowly start to kiss down by her breasts. In fact, I usually kiss right on her nipple, but OVER her shirt and bra. Why?
Because she knows how good this would feel if you were doing this to her bare breasts, instead of her stupid shirt. She’ll feel a little pleasure from kissing her breasts over the shirt, but she’ll be annoyed that she can’t get to enjoy all of it.
Also, another method for making her want to take her top off is to kiss down her neck, and if she has an open cleavage shirt, start pulling it down a little, so you can kiss lower onto her breasts. But DON’T kiss the sensitive nipple area while she still has her shirt on…. EVER.
If she wants to enjoy THAT, she will take her top off. Now realize, a lot of the time she won’t just take her top off. She’ll wait for you to do it for her. This is extremely easy when she’s on top of you, because usually she has her hands on the bed on either side of you to support herself up while she kisses you.
Now is the perfect position to reach up, and undo her bra. And now you can stroke a LITTLE bit higher on the back, but still not all the way. Why are you doing this? Simple, now… she not only still wants to experience pleasure, but now she’s got this annoying feeling of an undone bra on her body.
So she’ll either want to redo the bra strap, or just take it off. And you know what, I’ve never had a woman redo her bra strap ☺
So remember, now that you’ve got her turned on, and you’ve got the bra undone, you’re 80% there. Now, it’s just a matter of time. Keep turning her on, and lifting her shirt a little bit at a time.
Usually what will happen is that you’ll rub her back, and as you’re lifting her shirt up, you’ll notice her arch her back forward a little. She’s doing this to make it extremely easy for you to remove her shirt, so take the cue and DO IT.
Oh yeah, and one more thing… there’s an important reason why you ALWAYS undo the bra before you remove the shirt.
That reason is, when you take off the shirt, you can just scoop up the bra and remove it WITH the shirt… all at once. Think about it… WHAT girl is going to want to sit there with an undone bra and no shirt? At this point, it’s either all or nothing, and they almost always go for taking them both off.
Piece of cake right? With some practice, you’ll be able to pull this off so smoothly that it will feel completely natural to the girl, because she’s so preoccupied with receiving more pleasure from you. Oh man, I love women!